Many years ago, when I was thirteen years old, I was playing soccer with some friends at a birthday party. During the match, I was tackled from behind (a highly illegal move) and the player fell on my left thigh. Consequently, my left femur was broken in two. The match was stopped and I was moved to a bench; this shifted my broken leg. By the time I arrived at the hospital, both broken bones were side by side. After surgery, I was in a body cast from the bottom of my ribcage to the ankle of my left foot and to the knee of my right foot, for six weeks. These six weeks were life changing. At the age of thirteen, I was confined to a bed. Everything, I mean everything, was brought to me. This including being hand washed, hand fed and the toilet came to me. This is not easy for a 13 year old, who is discovering the world. I even travelled on an international flight Chile to Australia, in this body cast. The cast spanned the distance of two plane seats and a bit more. During the flight, the plastered foot stuck out into the aisle. Every passenger on the flight must have knocked the cast. Just in case you are wondering, I am fine now. But, at the time, it was difficult and challenging.
When I was eighteen years old, I spent five days in hospital for a series of test. One of these tests was a spinal tap. Basically, the test consists of me curling up on my side in a foetal position and then a sharp needle being placed into my spinal cord and fluid being removed, all for testing purposes. The pain descends after you straighten out and the needle is removed. The human body was never created for such pain.
There is an interesting quote that spoke about pain or suffering. It said, "know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us." Basically, we live in a world where there is pain and suffering. But, at times, we try to deny or avoid the pain. But, perseverance is a result of working through the pain. Character, the moral strength of a person, is developed; from this hope. In this world, hope will thrive and triumph.
7 comments:
Hi,
I've been almost the same pain as you or maybe even worse, so I knkw I what you were feeling and how you feel now going back to these days. This situation you are put thru, they make you to grom uo faster then your friends are. After all I went thru from the time I was born to when I was 16-27 learn a lot about people, pain, patience, compassion, sharing pain with others. And after I was completely alrgiht I had to go thru this again supporting my tiny nephew with leukemia, he had this liquid taking out from his spin when he was only 2y, I barely could deal with it and I had to be stronger then my sister, which was single mother then.
But after all I went thru, I don't regret anything, I've learned a lot and I can see more what is going around me then other people which live in their peacefull lives not aware of pain.
That's my comment- Kasia
That's my comment- Kasia
Your blog is pretty darn good, man.
"know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us." Basically, we live in a world where there is pain and suffering. But, at times, we try to deny or avoid the pain. But, perseverance is a result of working through the pain. Character, the moral strength of a person, is developed; from this hope. In this world, hope will thrive and triumph.
SO BEAUTIFUL...STILL CHEWING THE WORDS...TOO PERFECT FOR WORDS..
pain truly does test and challenge us, it gives us a glimps of our true character. strength may be viewed in many ways and pain can decide ones strength
seriously that last paragraph is inspirational :-) keep writing!
Post a Comment